Autism meltdowns are intense responses to overwhelming situations, and they are not the same as tantrums. They are triggered by sensory overload, stress, or unmet communication needs. Understanding the stages can help parents and caregivers respond with empathy and support.
Here are the 6 stages of an autism meltdown:
- Trigger – A sensory, emotional, or environmental factor overwhelms the child (loud noise, sudden change, etc.).
- Build-Up – Signs of distress begin, such as fidgeting, pacing, or repeating words.
- Escalation – The child becomes more visibly upset, showing frustration, yelling, or crying.
- Meltdown Peak – Intense behaviors occur, such as screaming, hitting, or self-injury. The child is not in control during this stage.
- De-Escalation – Energy begins to fade, and the child may become quieter, exhausted, or withdrawn.
- Recovery – The child often feels tired, sad, or embarrassed. They may need comfort, space, or reassurance.
Recognizing these stages allows caregivers to intervene early, provide calming strategies, and support recovery compassionately.
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SOURCES:
https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-navigate-and-manage-an-autistic-meltdown-8650899
https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour/meltdowns/all-audiences
Autism Meltdown – The Complete Guide
https://raisingchildren.net.au/autism/behaviour/common-concerns/meltdowns-autistic-children-teenagers
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