Gaining the attention of an autistic person requires patience, understanding, and respect for their unique communication style. Unlike neurotypical interactions, traditional cues like calling a name or expecting eye contact may not always be effective. Instead, creating the right environment and using tailored strategies can make communication smoother.
Start by reducing background noise or visual distractions, which can overwhelm an autistic individual. Approach them calmly, use their name, and keep your words simple and clear. If verbal prompts aren’t effective, try visual supports like pictures, gestures, or written notes. Some autistic people respond well to structured routines, so incorporating familiar cues can also help.
It’s important not to force eye contact—engagement can happen without it. Instead, focus on signs that they’re listening, such as turning their head, pausing their activity, or responding in their way. Gentle, non-intrusive physical cues like tapping a table (rather than touching it directly) can sometimes be helpful, depending on their comfort level.
At Epic Minds Therapy, we specialize in evidence-based strategies that help families and caregivers connect meaningfully with autistic individuals, strengthening communication and fostering mutual understanding.
Frequently Asked Questions
How can you get an autistic person’s attention respectfully?
Use their name, approach calmly, and minimize distractions in the environment.
What strategies work best?
Visual aids, gentle physical prompts (if appropriate), and clear, direct language are effective.
Should you force eye contact?
No. Eye contact can be uncomfortable for many autistic individuals. Focus on engagement, not eye contact.